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Saturday 13 August 2011 - 20:27:56
LOL, yeah. i can't take her to a concert i'd like to, i mean it's freakin System Of A Down, my all time favorite band in the world, and i'm gonna miss them for this ETF thing... oh well.

Saturday 15 October 2011 - 06:07:43
so frustrated that it seems like everyone is robbing me my time .. can I do something to make my life better and don't Disturb me.. grrr my website http://711go.com is not yet ready .. am so so pissed off...

Saturday 15 October 2011 - 08:48:17
sometimes it can be really demoralized .. when things are getting out of hand.. damn .. I don't feel good either

Wednesday 19 October 2011 - 09:43:28
Hi,I'm v happy because i am a content person.
hahahha lol
History of customer service

Sunday 20 November 2011 - 09:37:34
Disappointed. My night was a bust due to factors Beyond my control.

Sunday 20 November 2011 - 09:40:36
Quite happy actually. Just learnt "Mad Butcher" by Destruction on guitar and made up a somewhat cool riff.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
I still Hate everyone though. 0

Friday 06 January 2012 - 05:30:22
This might be the stupidest thing in the world to put on here, but oh well lol.


So, I just turned 20 and I'm in my second year of college. I work at a
local grocery store, mostly bagging, but I will occasionally work in the
grocery department, stocking shelves and all that. I have mostly
worked during the summer, which I have done for Two summers now, but
since money is tight, I must now start working and going to school.
Whenever I worked there in the summer, I would always get extremely
nervous before and during work. The work is not incredibly difficult,
but I am always incredibly fearful. I thought it would get better after
I would be doing it for this long, but I am still nervous all the time.
If I am stocking shelves, I always feel like I will do something
wrong, or that my superiors will give me a stern talking to, or
something like that. I also feel like I don't work fast enough; when I
am supposed to face all of the items on the shelves, my Boss always
tells me to speed it up a little, which makes me more nervous. When
customers also ask me where things are, I don't exactly know, since I
have only worked during the summers (and the store often changes where
things are). I always feel like I am being too slow or doing something
wrong, and I Hate it. On top of that, I feel extremely nervous when
talking to my superiors; they are usually always busy with something,
and I feel like I am wasting their time with my questions, like "Where
would the Olive Oil be" when they are trying to straighten out something
important.



So, that is my problem haha. Does anyone know of any ways to cope with
this? It's extremely frustrating to feel this way, especially when I've
been doing it for this long. Any help would be appreciated

Friday 06 January 2012 - 08:28:30
^^^

Dude, just chill out and talk to people. The best way to fix things like that is destraction. You wont even realised you were nervous if you just talk. I mean i had my L2 drivers test, (L1, L2, P1, P2 then full license in Tas, Aus) and i was nervous, so to try and Overcome that i talked to the instructor (who happened to listen to bands like August Burns Red, Attack Attack etc) and i felt much more comfortable. Just try it, you'll be right cobba.
Friday 06 January 2012 - 09:20:50

citation :
Moose1220 says : This might be the stupidest thing in the world to put on here, but oh well lol.


So, I just turned 20 and I'm in my second year of college. I work at a
local grocery store, mostly bagging, but I will occasionally work in the
grocery department, stocking shelves and all that. I have mostly
worked during the summer, which I have done for Two summers now, but
since money is tight, I must now start working and going to school.
Whenever I worked there in the summer, I would always get extremely
nervous before and during work. The work is not incredibly difficult,
but I am always incredibly fearful. I thought it would get better after
I would be doing it for this long, but I am still nervous all the time.
If I am stocking shelves, I always feel like I will do something
wrong, or that my superiors will give me a stern talking to, or
something like that. I also feel like I don't work fast enough; when I
am supposed to face all of the items on the shelves, my Boss always
tells me to speed it up a little, which makes me more nervous. When
customers also ask me where things are, I don't exactly know, since I
have only worked during the summers (and the store often changes where
things are). I always feel like I am being too slow or doing something
wrong, and I Hate it. On top of that, I feel extremely nervous when
talking to my superiors; they are usually always busy with something,
and I feel like I am wasting their time with my questions, like "Where
would the Olive Oil be" when they are trying to straighten out something
important.



So, that is my problem haha. Does anyone know of any ways to cope with
this? It's extremely frustrating to feel this way, especially when I've
been doing it for this long. Any help would be appreciated

Ohh, yes... I totally know what you mean.

I used to work at a large grocery chain in Australia called Coles, I hated it. I worked the register and I was so nervous during my first few shifts because they throw you into the deep End and you either sink of swim. I pretty much sank on my first Two days, I was nervous as fuck, didn't know what to do and I had customers waiting. One was so impatient that she cracked the shits with me for being too slow, ON MY SECOND SHIFT. I tried to explain to her that it was only my second shift, but no. GOD damn, I still remember how ugly that old hag was. Anyway, it seemed like every single time I talked to one of the people at the serivce desk, they'd always give me the sternest look and seemed like they were alwaysed pissed off at me. They couldn't even let me go when I reached The End of my shift and I used to finish late at night and catch the bus home. Not just the people at the service desk, I remember this 6'4, fat, bald, KKK looking Prick to hated the shit outta me, I ask him a simple question and he just death stares me. Although he did talk to me once... just to Dis my hair cut infront of my boss. Also I wasn't allowed to talk to anyone thats not a customer, I could go through a whole shift without talking to another Coles employee. And there were really hot chicks working there so I really Wanted to talk to them. But unlike you, I didn't feel nervous, I felt more depressed than anything which reflected my performance.

Argh, enough of my rant, I'll just say it was 7 months of hell.

Well, how did I solve this problem?
First of all I quit, and when I quit, I was walking past the service desk and one of ladies pulled me over.
lady - "do you have your time for your next shift?"
me - "no"
lady - "WHY NOT" gives me stern look*
me - "because I quit"

Then I got another job at a coffee shop. Sure its hard work, but its also a team effort. There is much more communication between employees and more importantly my employer. And just for the record, my boss is awesome.

I know there isn't really any easy way out in your case, mainly because I got my other through work experience and I'm guessing you don't want to quit anyway. But, it worked for me

I hope it all goes well my friend


Friday 06 January 2012 - 10:55:37
Best Reaction when working in a shop and somebody complains you're too slow:

He/she: you're slow blah blah...
You: okay, I'll see what i can do and do what i can
He/se: fine (leaves)
You: f*** you, I won't work harder because you think i'm your slave
   
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