Break-up or similar stuff?

Why is it that 80% of the time that people on here have a personal problem they're super vague about it until someone asks specifically what happened?
 
So.
What happened?

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Its true ! I think though its natural hesitation . I mean , you dont go in and start rambling about some personal issue . Everyone will laugh at you . You need some kind of permition , even indirect , before you start .
On the other hand , it could be craving for attendion , i am not sure .

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And to his praises we shall always sing
Look what he has done for us, he's filled us up with cheer
Lord bless Cha

You're probably right about the first one--I don't see anyone on here as major attention cravers (really ). But then again, no one would laugh if they suddenly brought up some stuff, especially not on this thread. We're all too nice here.

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Oh no. This was no break-up. @_@" It's actually a bit of a long story.

We all like stories.

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Run in circles, Scream and shout.

I think it's because they don't want to tell it all right away, assuming no one would care or reply and all that typing would go to waste.
Well, anyways...
Back when I was on VampireFreaks, I was talking to a guy we'll call Chris. I know, you probably don't think he was a real dude or anything, but I knew he was; He had salutes and I Saw him on web-cam and stuff of that sort.
We talked for some time [I met him in November], and sometimes in March I met this other guy Jonathan.
Then we started talking. It was going well... Until he started having feelings for me. I wanted Nothing of it, of course. He seriously wasn't my type. So he settled for being my "brother". Then one day he got a bit upset and found out about me talking to Chris, and lo and behold, he just starts going off about calling the police on me and him for STATUTORY RAPE. I know it's a serious issue, but when you thought about it, it was really pointless. First of all, I lived in Savannah at the time. Chris was in New York. So how could we even do anything that could be considered statutory rape?? And the reason I called him a hypocritical was because he was 24 and Chris was 22. Not to mention he sent me explicit pics when we first met which he later said was out of consent, which was bs, since I never asked him to send them and I'm 15. He even said he knew Chris. That Chris went out with his best friend and that she apparently killed herself for what he did to her. Which I didn't believe. The only reason I didn't believe him on that was because he viewed his VF profile earlier while he was still threatening to call the police. If he really knew Chris, wouldn't that have been the first thing he said when he viewed his profile? Instead of bragging about being a hacker and telling me stuff about Chris' basic information I already know? He also kept saying how he was an ex-cop and he was gonna make a "special phone call" and whatnot. I tried my best to be careful around him. Since he's older, he may know more than I do, but he sure didn't ACT like he did.
Tbh, I thought he was jealous, and the reason he did all this was to get back at me for some shit I didn't even do. He used to ramble on about not having anyone in his life and having no friends and all. And after that little episode of us arguing back and forth, I soon Saw why he was alone. He claimed I treated him like dirt and I always had his way. I really didn't see how, I said Nothing meant to him, but I kept telling him I didn't want to be around him because I felt uncomfortable, and if I were him, I'd be lucky someone was talking to me, if I was so alone as he claimed to be.
Gahh. It just makes me MAD just thinking about it. After I thought about it for awhile, if he was really my brother, wouldn't he understand that I felt uncomfortable? Instead of throwing a tantrum like a toddler? Well, I took a friends advice and ignored him. I didn't ignore him before because I thought he would make good on his threat and call the police. And sure enough, he stopped texting me 4 months ago.

The end.

don't take this the wrong way, but usually when guys marginally older than you (if they're more than 5 years older than you or more) they're bound to be sorta... odd to say the least. i honestly don't get why girls are so into dating guys so fucking older than they are.. my stupid dumb bipolar ex dated a guy twice her age, it kinda makes me Sick to my stomach to think about that kinda stuff. just stick to people in your own age group and preferrably with ones that you can physically be with rather than "skyping" and other assinine shit like that
as Far as the stautory rape charge goes, you can't get in trouble unless you had any sort of physical contact with this person whatsoever... my two cents on this Ordeal is just stick with kids your own age until you turn 18... then you can go and date a 78 year old man and nobody can say boo about it

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Shit yeah!... Shit no, No One likes shit!

I agree. A friend of mine lost her v-card in 8th Grade to a 19 year old. I couldn't look at her the same for awhile.
I told him the same thing about Statutory Rape. He said it didn't matter because I was "with him". -_-
Psh, don't think I WANTED to date an older guy. Not to sound arrogant or anything, but they all kinda gravitated towards me. And I wasn't dressed like some teenage jailbait slut in the pics I had. Besides. There were too many of those chicks on VF anyways. But that doesn't matter.
I was going to wait until I was 18 until I met my bf.

I promise I'm not trying to marginalize what you've been through here, but people like that on the internet... SO entertaining! I mean, come on, did you ever out-and-out question what an 'ex-cop' with 'connections' who is 24 or 22 or whatever would be doing getting pissed off about a 15-yer-old-girl? I mean Jesus, I'm only 17 and a 15 year old is as yound as I'm willing to go gf-wise, so the thought of a 22 year old going for it is a little... weird. In any case, I think you should've called him out on that, because it's always fun to watch them bullshit an excuse and better yet, sometimes that makes them stop contacting you, so you don't have to go through all of what you went through.
(Also, just throwing it out there, why would an ex-cop call statuatory rape where it isn't possible to prove? Is that what the 'ex' is for?)
IMO, you should've broken it off as soon as he sent you semi-erotic pics of himself or whatever. It's messed up, seeing that stuff, and I once knew a girl online who wanted to send me nude pics of her (creepy), and I told her she could very well be sending pics to a 40-year-old pedophile, to which she suddenly suspected me of being a pedophile and stopped being my friend
Anyway, now that I consider the way he acted, it sounds like he would've been younger than the age he said he was. You say you talked on webcam, but some people look a lot older than they're supposed to be. His actions make him sound like a 14-year-old.
...So, are you still friends with this other guy, The One he was jealous of?

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