Mercenarion says : This will sound extremely stupid, but remember you'll always have us here to talk to.  |
As Merc was saying, there's never a 0% Chance. I mean, there's been countless numbers of people who've survived Cancer, Aggressive and progressive ones alike. Just pray to GOD (if that's your thing. . .) that he makes it. Have a little Faith you never know what might happen. | Demogorefest says : Cancer is almost a Fact of life for a good portion of the population, anybody who lives long enough is bound to get it sooner or later. Death is natural, even though it may take those closest to us, it will inevitably take us all in the end... dunno if thats of any comfort whatsoever, but i feel for ya dude. i think we've all lost someone to Cancer over the course of our life. |
citation : I understand that,but this person is my father. I don't have any relatives in Australia, no grandparents, cousins or aunties, Nobody. They are all in the Philippines, France and USA. Which is a long way from where I am now. I have very little support and the thought that I am going to have to go through the rest of my life without my father is extremely depressing. |
, because at the moment I just want to crawl into a Hole and just let time pass me by. | miniradman says : Thanks mate , because at the moment I just want to crawl into a Hole and just let time pass me by. |
| InfinityZero says : I think that's how everyone feels with stuff like this. That's horrible news--can't imagine having my father Die on me. I think that, although obviously there's no way to fully accept what's going to happen, it's best to try and wrap your Head around it, and get some closure with your DAD before you lose that oppurtunity, because if you don't... if you spend time mourning him now, before it's over, you'll Kick yourself for not trying harder, Trust me. I really don't know what else there is to do, and I'm really sorry if that didn't help, but it's just what I think. I'm really sorry about this whole thing. Oh, and if you're barely on the forums in the near future, don't worry about that--everyone here will understand. |
| miniradman says : That's the Sad thing though, since I was about 13 (when I entered highschool) my DAD and I never got along. We always have different opinions on different topics and we used to have arguments (not domestic violence or full on swearing arguments but disagreeing arguments) the years went by and it comes to this. Even now I find it had to find common ground. I just feel like I haven't spent enough time I probably be less active on the forums when he comes home, I'll try and spend as much time as I possibly can before... |
