Hell >> The Problem of Suicide
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have u efer tried to commit suicide?
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i am thinking of it but smth stops me
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Wednesday 03 March 2010 - 14:44:57

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JoeNoctus says :

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My opinion

Your "opinion" is solely based on lack of thought. There are cases where suicide can be somewhat justified and not by the standards you set.
 
Ever heard of The Angelic Process? Fantastic band. The main songwriter of that band committed suicide. Why? He completely f*cked up his hand Beyond being able to play guitar or write music. He couldn't make music anymore.
 
Seem whiny to you? Well... No. I'd commit suicide if the same thing happened to me, or I went deaf. Music is what I live for, and music is what he lived for. If you truly cannot achieve what you base your life around, and your love around, I see no reason to object to suicide. You may say it would Hurt their love ones, but then...If this person truly has Nothing to live for, I think their loved ones would understand and would like to see a certain person at peace.
 
Suicide with permanent illness is also justified too, if you're going to Die, why would you want to just wait for the day to come, gradfually growing weaker and weaker? I'd rather end it there and then, with my own life in my own hands.
 
Not all suicide is "not being able to get over your problems", you think about this far too black and white.
 
 
But I agree with you with most cases of suicide, particularly teenagers whom don't know the value of life to the extent that they should. I've lived my life In Hell for about a decade, and not once did I try suicide. I can't say I didn't think about suicide, but I always turned away from it. It all depends on the person, and I'm very strong. Unfortunately though, not everyone is as strong as me, or you since you seem to strong to your opinion, despite the circumstance.

 
A somehow arrogant comment 0  . Sorry , i had to say it 0

Wednesday 03 March 2010 - 15:35:09
Tolstoi on suicide:

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The question "Has a man in general the right to Kill himself?" is
incorrectly put. There can be no question of "right". If he is able to
do it, then he has the right. I think that the possibility of killing
oneself is a safety-valve. Having it, man has no right (here the
expression "right" is appropriate) to say that life is unbearable.
If it were impossible to live, then one would Kill oneself; and
consequently one cannot speak of life as being unbearable. The
possibility of killing himself has been given to man, and therefore he
may (he has the right to) Kill himself, and he continually uses this
right - when he kills himself in duels, in war, by dissipation, wine,
tobacco, opium, etc.
The question can only be as to whether it is reasonable and moral
(the reasonable and moral always coincide) to Kill oneself. No, it is
unreasonable; as unreasonable as to cut off the shoots of a plant which
one wishes to destroy; it will not Die, but will merely grow
irregularly..
Life is indestructible; it is Beyond time and space, therefore death
can only change its form, Arrest its manifestation in this world. But
having arrested it in this world, I, first, do not know whether its
manifestation in another world will be more pleasant to me; and,
secondly, I deprive myself of the possibility of experiencing and
acquiring by my ego all that could be acquired in this world.
Besides this, and above all, it is unreasonable because by arresting
my life owing to its apparent unpleasantness, I hereby show that I have
a perverted idea of the object of my life, assuming that its object is
my pleasure - whereas its objects, on the other hand, personal
perfection, and on the other, the service of that work which is being
accomplished by the whole life of the Universe.
It is for the same reason that suicide is also immoral. Life in its
Entirety, and the possibility of living until natural death, have been
given to man only on the condition that he serve the life of the
Universe. But, having profited by life so long as it was pleasant, he
refuses to serve the Universe as soon as life becomes unpleasant:
whereas, in all probability, his service commenced precisely when life
began to appear unpleasant. All work appears at first unpleasant.
In the Optin Monastery, for more than thirty years, there lay on the
Floor a monk smitten with Paralysis, who had the use of his left hand
only. The doctors said that he was sure to Suffer much, but not only
did he refrain from complaining of his position, but incessantly making
the sign of the Cross, and looking at the ikons,
he smilingly expressed his gratitude to GOD and joy in that spark of
life which flickered in him. Tens of thousands of visitors came to see
him, and it is difficult to imagine all the good which flowed into the
world through this man, though deprived of the possibility of any
activity. Certainly he did more good than thousands and thousands of
healthy people who imagine that in various institutions they are
serving the world.
While there is life in man, he can perfect himself and serve the
Universe. But he can serve the Universe only be perfecting himself, and
perfect himself only by serving the Universe.



Thursday 04 March 2010 - 12:55:13

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1Archon1 says :

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JoeNoctus says :


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My opinion

Your "opinion" is solely based on lack of thought. There are cases where suicide can be somewhat justified and not by the standards you set.
 
Ever heard of The Angelic Process? Fantastic band. The main songwriter of that band committed suicide. Why? He completely f*cked up his hand Beyond being able to play guitar or write music. He couldn't make music anymore.
 
Seem whiny to you? Well... No. I'd commit suicide if the same thing happened to me, or I went deaf. Music is what I live for, and music is what he lived for. If you truly cannot achieve what you base your life around, and your love around, I see no reason to object to suicide. You may say it would Hurt their love ones, but then...If this person truly has Nothing to live for, I think their loved ones would understand and would like to see a certain person at peace.
 
Suicide with permanent illness is also justified too, if you're going to Die, why would you want to just wait for the day to come, gradfually growing weaker and weaker? I'd rather end it there and then, with my own life in my own hands.
 
Not all suicide is "not being able to get over your problems", you think about this far too black and white.
 
 
But I agree with you with most cases of suicide, particularly teenagers whom don't know the value of life to the extent that they should. I've lived my life In Hell for about a decade, and not once did I try suicide. I can't say I didn't think about suicide, but I always turned away from it. It all depends on the person, and I'm very strong. Unfortunately though, not everyone is as strong as me, or you since you seem to strong to your opinion, despite the circumstance.

 
A somehow arrogant comment 0  . Sorry , i had to say it 0

 
How so? I think I was perfectly fair in saying not all suicides are about people not being over to get over their silly little problems, and displaying examples.

Thursday 04 March 2010 - 13:09:08
I dont want to be offensive 0  .
Just mentioned it cause :
1) Starting the post by accusing the other of lack of thought ? mean 0
2) The example of the musician killing himself because of being a failure ? There are far more important reasons To Die For
3) Not everyone is as strong as you ?  Thats arrogant 0 
  
  
Dont be offended 0  , i mean no Harm . in the other parts of your comment i agree with you .

Thursday 04 March 2010 - 13:21:03



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1Archon1 says : I dont want to be offensive 0  .
Just mentioned it cause :
1) Starting the post by accusing the other of lack of thought ? mean 0
2) The example of the musician killing himself because of being a failure ? There are far more important reasons To Die For
3) Not everyone is as strong as you ?  Thats arrogant 0
 
 
Sorry , dont be offended 0  , i mean no Harm . in the other parts of your comment i agree with you .

1) There's Nothing really offensive in saying people havn't thought things through properly, I wasn't accusing him of stupidity, I was just trying to set him straight.
2) It was just on my mind at the time, and it's a good example. It's not because he was a failure, it's because he physically couldn't write music anymore, it wasn't that he was a failure.
It was an example of something that seems meaningless until you put things into THIER perspective, do you understand? It may not be something you would do, but it's what he lived for.
3) I Hate to say it, but if you had any idea. I've talked to Earine about this before, and she'd understand why I'd say something that sounds so arrogant. It's not as arrogant as you may think.
 
Don't worry, I took no Offense - I was just confused.

Thursday 04 March 2010 - 13:34:57
1) Saying that someone acts before thinking either shows stupidity or immaturity . Both of those things are not to be said unless you think you are better . And in conversations like this , where there is no answer , just opinions , you cant correct someone even if he is totally narrow minded and with an absolute opinion . You can just say you disagree . 
2) Agreed . I see now what you wanted to say , no objections .
3) You would be surprised 0  . Many of us have been through our personal Hell . I included . I am not proud of this, nor i think it makes me better than anyone else . I have spoke with many people , and many of them had similar stories in their past .  Its a Sad world the one we live in , and its arrogance to concider that you were the most unlucky .

Thursday 04 March 2010 - 15:54:48
1) I never said he DIDN'T think, i said he should put MORE thought into it and think from different perspectives. It's not as if what I said was offensive or baseless. I pretty much said that he hasn't thought about this from different perspectives, and I wasn't wrong.
2) Glad we're in agreement on that.
3) Oh, of course. I never said I was the strongest, but I was certainly strong enough to resist the temptation of suicide. I was just using myself as an example because I know exactly what is going on in my own Head, I cannot Judge anyone elses. It would make more sense to talk from a perspective I know more than anyone. I didn't say I was the most unlucky. I also mentioned him probably being very strong too. Maybe it came off as arrogance, but it isn't what I meant by it.

Thursday 04 March 2010 - 22:11:17
A respectable and commentable explanation on your opinion 0  .

Thursday 04 March 2010 - 23:29:23


Sorry if I came off as arrogant, it sometimes tends to show that way if I'm in a somewhat questionable mood. ;)

Friday 05 March 2010 - 00:02:16

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JoeNoctus says :

Sorry if I came off as arrogant, it sometimes tends to show that way if I'm in a somewhat questionable mood. ;)

 
I actually enjoyed this conversation very much 0 
   
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