So we were an odd bunch.
| InfinityZero says : ...Then again, guys usually don't discuss fapping either, so who knows. And those were the most outgoing girls I've ever known, and we told each other all kinds of ugly personal shit along the lines of porn and whatnot. So we were an odd bunch. |
| Here's the real kicker though-- I've been friends with a bunch of girls, and for the ones that watch porn, they get pleasure from it, but they never masterbate to it. It's odd. |
| Earine says : Most girls would never admit enjoying porn for masturbation purposes because they would have to Uncover the fact that they fantasize about things that usually cannot be attained in real life. Sexual imagery doesn't often lead to real Sex, due to factors like ethics, self-respect or reservation. Or even physical factors. For example, I once read in a sexology book that many women fantasize about rape. It doesn't mean that they would like it if it really happened. But how many would admit that? And there's also the old narrow-mindedness that make women look skanks if they enjoy something extreme. If a girl turns to you (general) and say something like "yes, I masturbate watching Hardcore movies about orgies, double penetration, bondage and Sex with strippers" she would be probably considered nutty as fruitcake. A man most likely wouldn't. So it's not hard to figure out where the coverups like "I get pleasure from it but I never masturbate to it", "I like it just out of curiosity" come from. Because, like I've read in some posts along this thread, it looks so weird picturing a woman masturbating in front of a screen. I'm not saying that all women masturbate watching porn, or that they like it. But where is Prejudice, usually there is hypocrisy. |
| Earine says : Most girls would never admit enjoying porn for masturbation purposes because they would have to Uncover the fact that they fantasize about things that usually cannot be attained in real life.
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| InfinityZero says : citation :
Well, for my case, we all knew that we fantasized and liked that kinda stuff; I never Saw it as odd or anything, and I didn't Judge them because they never judged me. In response to Archon, I've never seen a girl fapping as odd at all--though I'm not sure how other guys look at it. I haven't had too many guy friends in the last few years. Aaaaand I've never had Sex so I wouldn't know if I'd prefer fapping to sex. I probably would at first, 'cause from what I've heard the first time is fairly dissatisfying, and it takes a while to get interesting. At the interesting point, I'd probably go Sex over fapping. At least that's the way I see it--I really have no idea. |
first time i did it i had no idea what i was doing, i guess it gets better over time, but i haven't gotten that Far yet. the human body disgusts me and i have a very Hard Time showing affection towards anyone
this is coming from a Misanthropic perspective though