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Wednesday 04 May 2011 - 23:46:10
Oh, okay.
I mean, I've been friends with three girls (not friends with any of them anymore though), and they all had viewed porn at different times 'cause they got erotic interest out of it, but from being outside of that group the general impression I got was that it was just the odd girl that does it and it was an odd thing running into 3 of them that did it. I dunno, I just can't picture preppy type girls watching porn and getting turned on by it. Although of course they could just be more secret about it.
 
...Then again, guys usually don't discuss fapping either, so who knows.
And those were the most outgoing girls I've ever known, and we told each other all kinds of ugly personal shit along the lines of porn and whatnot. 0  So we were an odd bunch.
 
Here's the real kicker though--
I've been friends with a bunch of girls, and for the ones that watch porn, they get pleasure from it, but they never masterbate to it. It's odd.

Thursday 05 May 2011 - 03:16:33

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...Then again, guys usually don't discuss fapping either, so who knows.
And those were the most outgoing girls I've ever known, and we told each other all kinds of ugly personal shit along the lines of porn and whatnot. 0  So we were an odd bunch.
 


Really? When I'm hanging out with a few choice bros, the finer semantics to jerkin it have become a common topic. Obviously it's not with all of them, just some of them that I'm Closer with, but still, with the ones that I do, we could go on for hours.


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Here's the real kicker though--
I've been friends with a bunch of girls, and for the ones that watch porn, they get pleasure from it, but they never masterbate to it. It's odd.


And you believe them?


Thursday 05 May 2011 - 13:35:55
Well yes actually, because they described why they didn't do it. Actually now that I think about it only one of them said why they couldn't, and I guess I believed her.
 
But you have a point; you never know when they're lying and of course I don't really know girls and I'm not one myself so I don't have anything to base their masterbation or non-masterbation on.

Thursday 05 May 2011 - 19:35:32
Most girls would never admit enjoying porn for masturbation purposes because they would have to Uncover the fact that they fantasize about things that usually cannot be attained in real life. Sexual imagery doesn't often lead to real Sex, due to factors like ethics, self-respect or reservation. Or even physical factors. For example, I once read in a sexology book that many women fantasize about rape. It doesn't mean that they would like it if it really happened. But how many would admit that?

And there's also the old narrow-mindedness that make women look skanks if they enjoy something extreme. If a girl turns to you (general) and say something like "yes, I masturbate watching Hardcore movies about orgies, double penetration, bondage and Sex with strippers" she would be probably considered nutty as fruitcake. A man most likely wouldn't. So it's not hard to figure out where the coverups like "I get pleasure from it but I never masturbate to it", "I like it just out of curiosity" come from. Because, like I've read in some posts along this thread, it looks so weird picturing a woman masturbating in front of a screen.

I'm not saying that all women masturbate watching porn, or that they like it. But where is Prejudice, usually there is hypocrisy.


Thursday 05 May 2011 - 21:10:48



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Earine says : Most girls would never admit enjoying porn for masturbation purposes because they would have to Uncover the fact that they fantasize about things that usually cannot be attained in real life. Sexual imagery doesn't often lead to real Sex, due to factors like ethics, self-respect or reservation. Or even physical factors. For example, I once read in a sexology book that many women fantasize about rape. It doesn't mean that they would like it if it really happened. But how many would admit that?

And there's also the old narrow-mindedness that make women look skanks if they enjoy something extreme. If a girl turns to you (general) and say something like "yes, I masturbate watching Hardcore movies about orgies, double penetration, bondage and Sex with strippers" she would be probably considered nutty as fruitcake. A man most likely wouldn't. So it's not hard to figure out where the coverups like "I get pleasure from it but I never masturbate to it", "I like it just out of curiosity" come from. Because, like I've read in some posts along this thread, it looks so weird picturing a woman masturbating in front of a screen.

I'm not saying that all women masturbate watching porn, or that they like it. But where is Prejudice, usually there is hypocrisy.


Yes i agree . Social standarts are really against women in this subject . And i dont see why they wouldnt enjoy watching at an sexual ACT , in a different prespective than men propably , but still .

Also about the Hardcore situations , i think its sexual curiosity of things that you wouldnt Dare ask from a lover (if not really really intimate or openminded) and the tabboo itself . Like when you are said that if you imagine your mom masturbate , you are going to Hell . No matter how hard you will try , in The End you will imagine it . Humans enjoy forbidden things .

On a different note , why does that happen only to women ? I mean surely , in community status they are the only one condemned by it , and guys doing it considered natural , but what about in private situations ? What guy would Dare admit to his girlfriend that he likes rape porno ? Or bondage fetishes ? Or that he would like to share her with another woman for a threesome ? Its not as easy as it sounds , because when you divulge such information , you practically suggest that you would want it from her .

Not to mention there are cases guys prefer masturbating to porn than actual Sex . And why is that ? Because satisfying your mate requires more than robotic moves . It requires feelings . To admire and caress , not to use . To the point , how many guys would admit they do that ? Not many , really .


Friday 06 May 2011 - 13:32:41

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Earine says : Most girls would never admit enjoying porn for masturbation purposes because they would have to Uncover the fact that they fantasize about things that usually cannot be attained in real life.

 
Well, for my case, we all knew that we fantasized and liked that kinda stuff; I never Saw it as odd or anything, and I didn't Judge them because they never judged me.
 
In response to Archon, I've never seen a girl fapping as odd at all--though I'm not sure how other guys look at it. I haven't had too many guy friends in the last few years. Aaaaand I've never had Sex so I wouldn't know if I'd prefer fapping to sex. I probably would at first, 'cause from what I've heard the first time is fairly dissatisfying, and it takes a while to get interesting. At the interesting point, I'd probably go Sex over fapping. At least that's the way I see it--I really have no idea.
 
 

Friday 06 May 2011 - 23:44:55

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Earine says : Most girls would never admit enjoying porn for masturbation purposes because they would have to Uncover the fact that they fantasize about things that usually cannot be attained in real life.

 
Well, for my case, we all knew that we fantasized and liked that kinda stuff; I never Saw it as odd or anything, and I didn't Judge them because they never judged me.
 
In response to Archon, I've never seen a girl fapping as odd at all--though I'm not sure how other guys look at it. I haven't had too many guy friends in the last few years. Aaaaand I've never had Sex so I wouldn't know if I'd prefer fapping to sex. I probably would at first, 'cause from what I've heard the first time is fairly dissatisfying, and it takes a while to get interesting. At the interesting point, I'd probably go Sex over fapping. At least that's the way I see it--I really have no idea.
 
 

not to get too Far off topic but the whole first time being awful is 100% accuate0  first time i did it i had no idea what i was doing, i guess it gets better over time, but i haven't gotten that Far yet. the human body disgusts me and i have a very Hard Time showing affection towards anyone

Saturday 07 May 2011 - 01:01:40
The human body disgusts you? Even if it's a girl?

Saturday 07 May 2011 - 05:13:25
to some extent, yes... i mean, when i'm "in the mood" it doesn't bother me, but if you think about it, we're a pretty gross species0 this is coming from a Misanthropic perspective though

Saturday 07 May 2011 - 19:24:52
Well yeah, me and a friend actually once remenisced on how there's Nothing aesthetically pleasing about genitalia yet we're attracted to them. I mean, vaginas look like a bunch of slabs of meat, but guys are still all over them.