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Friday 01 May 2009 - 00:04:26


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CreatioExMateria says : That's kind of different though, isn't it? I think what we're talking about here is meeting over the net. What you're doing is just sensible. Miss her much?

 
fair enuf and ye i do but we talk nearly every day so its not that bad plus shes coming over to Live with me at uni next yr so itl be back to normal then

Friday 01 May 2009 - 05:39:50

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asmodelica says :

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Earine says : Sure! I fell in love with my boyfriend five years ago, through the internet.



nice! hope we hear the sound of the ringing bells...sooooooooonnnnn....


Why everyone says that?


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Agnostica says: I think it is possible, tho i don't know how strong this love could be!


Well, the question was about falling in love, which is a different thing from love someone. The last one is something to be constructed along the years, as the partners do things together and get through hard situations together, with patience and understanding. I doubt if this is possible using just the internet, at least I haven't experienced it.


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prtylvr says: im gonna have to say yes, even though i met my gf at a party when she went to go Live in america it would have been a lot harder without the use of the internet


Hey, I know what is feels like *pats your back*. My boyfriend is living in England for one year too and I rarely see him.


Friday 01 May 2009 - 17:25:20
I cant help but admire you two .  (Earine and prtylvr)  . You are away from your  mates and you are loyal in your relationships.....Well i was never in such a situation but it must be really difficult.

Saturday 02 May 2009 - 23:00:37
It's pretty hard to be in a relationship where you don't get to see someone. With both of my exes, we've rarely seen each other, even though the furthest away we lived was three hours. With my ex-girlffriend, that was part of the reason we broke up.

Sunday 03 May 2009 - 12:52:12
my friend met a guy in i-net,he was just lovely,told her romantic words,complained he was tired of lonliness,etc.there came a day they met in real life.he fucked her & than stopped writin to her.it was expactable,but she didt like to be treated as a foolish little girlie.
people have different faces & u never see th real one on the screen.the problem is in my rule in living:hope but dont beleive,believe but dont trust.maybe,i see my own reflection in others,being wrong to consider this way.but its really hard for me to fall in love in whole

Sunday 03 May 2009 - 17:03:08
i believe in real friendship relation throught internet ... 
that's really and absolutely work !

to talk about virtual love ... that mean .. long distance between 2 peoples ...
and that's really hard to leave !!
and all i can say about that is ...good luck !




Sunday 03 May 2009 - 18:00:30

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rafflesia says : my friend met a guy in i-net,he was just lovely,told her romantic words,complained he was tired of lonliness,etc.there came a day they met in real life.he fucked her & than stopped writin to her.it was expactable,but she didt like to be treated as a foolish little girlie.


My, poor girl. At least she got experience with this situation and I guess it will be hard to fool her again.

But notice that this is a situation that could have happened even without the internet. Using a chat is just another method with different weapons but, for example, lots of girls get fooled in highschool by guys who know how to Seduce them. And they are seeing their faces so, what goes wrong?
The point is, we have to be smart and separate the wheat from the chaff. There are good things and bad things inside and outside the internet world. Like I said before, I found my special one through the internet and we are together for five years, but I've always had a suspicious mind and I studied HIM a lot, watching HIM like a hawk, even after meeting HIM for real. Like... "what the Hell does he want, he's seven years older than me!"

I'm not saying "be smart and no one will fool you" but it undoubtedly decreases the chances of that happening, right?


Tuesday 05 May 2009 - 15:08:25
yes,but if u see through the people like i do(lol0 )the thing i 've told about would never happen0 i know others more than myself,i often guess their Mood before it changes,feelings,words before having been said.i'm not overdoin!there are some standard word,a certain expression & a tone of voice...whatever.
 

Tuesday 05 May 2009 - 15:11:42
 
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Earine says :

Like I said before, I found my special one through the internet and we are together for five years, but I've always had a suspicious mind and I studied HIM a lot, watching HIM like a hawk, even after meeting HIM for real. Like... "what the Hell does he want, he's seven years older than me!"


did u fall in love with HIM before meatin HIM in real life?0

Tuesday 05 May 2009 - 17:00:31
Yes... *blushes*  But like I told you, I consider "falling in love" a strong attraction, a sudden feeling. That's why some people fall in love at first sight (yeah, I believe that can happen too ). But I don't know if it's possible to love through the internet. Because loving someone is something more... mooore... well, more.