Crushes through the internet aren't much different from what happens in real life.
There are those people who fall in love and have the will to move forward, to try, to make sacrifices, and there are the others who don't even know what they want, who get
Absorbed in a strong but ephemeral feeling, then get tired, lose interest and eventually give up.
The problem is when one of the first kind finds the other. Of course it doesn't work, and there is always someone who ends up
Hurt, for being induced into some kind of dream that was far away from being true.
But that doesn't happen only in internet, but everywhere, by all
Means possible. All of it has to do with people's will and character, so blaming your bandwidth won't be the most truthful thing to do. We aren't safe from heartaches anywhere, and the least we can do is to accept it.
We may get
Hurt many times in our lives, but stop believing it's like to stop risking ourselves for something wonderful. Regardless of dreadful experiences we might have had, creating an impenetrable shield is like falling into an empty void.
Fulfilling a dream is very hard... but possible.
Like someone I know said once...
"...we will choose to love again.
It is why men are Brave and women are magnificent."